When it comes to goals, there are two types.
Mastery goals: The focus is learning and improving. They are characterized by an attitude of growth, abundance, curiosity.
Performance goals: The focus is outcomes. They are characterized by attitudes of judgement, scarcity, blame.
Mastery goals have a long-term focus. They are about the journey.
Performance goals are about here-and-now. You did…or you didn’t.
When you are setting goals, make a decision about which will serve you best.
And, I encourage you to consider what your awareness/consciousness may not yet be big enough to be able to see or consider.