I’ve been in hot pursuit of what I want this week.
My husband had another commitment that evening, so I’d invested in coordinating a sitter to pick our son up from after school activities and watch him so I could attend the event.
I found a place to park, paid for three hours of time, and was walking (quickly) to the meet-up dock.
There was a fence between me and the dock that I couldn’t figure how to get through, but I could see the yacht on the other side.
As I walked quickly east…then west, trying to spot the passage through the fence, the words ‘Bottom Line’ seemed to waver. Then move. Yep, they were crystal clear as the yacht pulled away.
We’d been instructed to board at 5:45pm for the event to start at 6:00pm. I checked my watch. It was 5:52pm.
I immediately called my colleague who was hosting the event, but he didn’t pick up. I texted him next. Then, I went to a restaurant with a patio that appeared to open to the dock and asked them, “How do I get over there?” They seemed annoyed, but let me walk through. I found a fellow colleague waiting at the dock, as well.
A few minutes later, the boat returned, and we boarded…both determined we needed to be part of the adventure.
I was expecting a package.
I had arranged my schedule to work from home.
I went nowhere and stayed home bound all day. Confession: I didn’t even take a shower for fear I’d miss the doorbell.
Until I had to go somewhere.
At 4:22pm, I left the house to pick my son up from school, less than a mile away. I left a note just in case. It said, “UPS: I need this package. I will be back in 10 minutes.”
Maybe I made it happen…who knows…but, I joked with my son’s teacher “I’ve been home bound all day waiting for UPS. Watch, they’ll show up as soon as I step away.”
Returning from pick-up, we rounded the corner and prepared to turn into our road. I saw the UPS truck leaving our street and turning onto the main thoroughfare.
“You’ve got to be kidding me.”
My pupils dilated, my eyes focused, and I made a quick left turn and circled around. I told my son, “Keep your eyes on that truck!”
I had no idea how far we’d have to go before the driver made his next stop. As we passed several streets, I started to worry it would be a longer way than I wanted to go…but, I needed that package.
Eventually, he stopped, and rolled up the back of the truck. He must have wondered why a middle-aged mom had pulled up behind him, clearly double parked and with a fiery determination in her eyes. (Well, at least that’s how I imagine it would be in a movie…)
I signed for the package, and mused at what it means to chase down what we want.
When the goal is clear and there is no space in which we’re willing to allow failure to be an option, all systems align and we feel:
- Clarity of Focus
- Vivid Prioritization
- Sense of Accomplishment
I contrasted this to how it feels to work in today’s corporate environment. I don’t know about you, but more often than not, I don’t feel clarity, prioritization, or accomplishment. I feel drained, distracted, and interrupted. There are so many things and people competing for attention. All.The.Time.
Here’s how we can change that:
- Clarity of Focus: Our calendars are often choppy with little time for extended work. Experiment this week with blocking 2-3 hour ‘flow’ chunks that allow you to make significant, focused progress. I’ve blocking my mornings, when I have the most focus and energy. It’s been revolutionary to my productivity and happiness in my role. I’m able to accomplish what I’m on the hook for first thing in the morning. Then, I’m able to be more present and engaged for others. I’m more patient with unexpected requests and with my colleagues.
- Vivid Prioritization: In a great Inc.com article, Sheryl Sandberg shares the concept of ruthless prioritization. One of the hardest challenges of today’s work world is leaving good ideas behind, in favor of the great ideas. It’s not easy, but to do the best work of our lives…we can’t choose to do all the work that’s available.
- Sense of Accomplishment: Pursuing what we want, putting in the effort, and getting it done leaves us exhilarated. In fact, in a study cited by Joseph Zenger and Jack Folkman in their book Speed, stress isn’t’ the result of having a lot to do. It’s the result of not finishing what we start.
Prioritize ruthlessly. And, be relentless in the chase.